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	<description>Identify Your Fears And Break Through Them!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Conquering the Fear of Asking by David Fuhriman</title>
		<link>http://facklerfamily.org/2011/07/13/conquering-the-fear-of-asking/#comment-7274</link>
		<dc:creator>David Fuhriman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Aug 2011 19:32:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mark, 

This is a great story thank you for sharing. I recently joined a Board of a new organization and this hits home.</description>
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<p>This is a great story thank you for sharing. I recently joined a Board of a new organization and this hits home.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Conquering the Fear of Asking by Mark Fackler</title>
		<link>http://facklerfamily.org/2011/07/13/conquering-the-fear-of-asking/#comment-6515</link>
		<dc:creator>Mark Fackler</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jul 2011 20:31:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks John and Sherri. I appreciate the feedback.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks John and Sherri. I appreciate the feedback.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Conquering the Fear of Asking by John Finegan</title>
		<link>http://facklerfamily.org/2011/07/13/conquering-the-fear-of-asking/#comment-6512</link>
		<dc:creator>John Finegan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jul 2011 20:11:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the inspiration Mark. I&#039;m involved with a local non profit and I share this fear. Obviously, your direct action eventually influenced your ability to see giving as it should be - a decision to have a positive effect on those in need. I salute your efforts!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the inspiration Mark. I&#8217;m involved with a local non profit and I share this fear. Obviously, your direct action eventually influenced your ability to see giving as it should be &#8211; a decision to have a positive effect on those in need. I salute your efforts!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Conquering the Fear of Asking by Sherri Davison</title>
		<link>http://facklerfamily.org/2011/07/13/conquering-the-fear-of-asking/#comment-6492</link>
		<dc:creator>Sherri Davison</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 13 Jul 2011 07:25:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for sharing this with all of us.  Your story is a great example of how &#039;taking a stand&#039; and aligning your actions with the stand you take creates transformation!  Brave Souls break through their self-imposed barriers!  BRAVO for breaking through yours!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for sharing this with all of us.  Your story is a great example of how &#8216;taking a stand&#8217; and aligning your actions with the stand you take creates transformation!  Brave Souls break through their self-imposed barriers!  BRAVO for breaking through yours!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Getting Ron Off The Streets by Mark</title>
		<link>http://facklerfamily.org/2011/03/27/ron-update/#comment-4142</link>
		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 12:57:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That is a great idea. I will get out there this week to see if someone will come with me to talk with Ron.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That is a great idea. I will get out there this week to see if someone will come with me to talk with Ron.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Getting Ron Off The Streets by John Finegan</title>
		<link>http://facklerfamily.org/2011/03/27/ron-update/#comment-4138</link>
		<dc:creator>John Finegan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2011 10:28:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One thing you might try is to take a spin to the veteran&#039;s village and seek out someone who&#039;s directly experienced receiving help there. They may be able to explain to Ron that it&#039;s ok to seek and get help from others, and there is a better way of life.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One thing you might try is to take a spin to the veteran&#8217;s village and seek out someone who&#8217;s directly experienced receiving help there. They may be able to explain to Ron that it&#8217;s ok to seek and get help from others, and there is a better way of life.</p>
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		<title>Comment on A followup on Ron my homeless friend by Dennis Rethmeier</title>
		<link>http://facklerfamily.org/2011/02/26/a-followup-on-ron-my-homeless-friend/#comment-3482</link>
		<dc:creator>Dennis Rethmeier</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Feb 2011 03:53:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have been following your relationship with a homeless person for a few years. I admire you for what you have done. I also have a tear, becuse I know they are real people.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Learning about the homeless, August 2, 2010 by Mark</title>
		<link>http://facklerfamily.org/2010/08/03/learning-about-the-homeless-august-2-2010/#comment-3447</link>
		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Feb 2011 13:11:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So very true Raland. I heart goes out to all the homeless including the recent and the chronic. I still see my friend Ron from time to time. I it hard for me to deal with the fact that he will most likely die on the streets.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So very true Raland. I heart goes out to all the homeless including the recent and the chronic. I still see my friend Ron from time to time. I it hard for me to deal with the fact that he will most likely die on the streets.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Learning about the homeless, August 2, 2010 by Raland Camara</title>
		<link>http://facklerfamily.org/2010/08/03/learning-about-the-homeless-august-2-2010/#comment-3441</link>
		<dc:creator>Raland Camara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 25 Feb 2011 03:52:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mark,

I just have a brief story dealing with one of my experiences with the homeless.  A year ago I went out on Christmas Eve with a group who makes up meals to give to the homeless.  We put together meals in styrofoam clamshells and went out walking the streets of downtown San Diego just north of Horton Plaza.  I must admit that I am not really a downtown dweller and only really go down there for a game at Petco or perhaps something at the convention center.  One of the first things that I discovered was that as soon as you walk around a little bit down there, you&#039;ll notice that there are a lot of people living on the streets.  There are far more than I ever realized while driving my car to a game at Petco.  Some have been on the streets for a long time and some are newly homeless.  The newly homeless look just like you and me.  Some are individuals and others are entire families.  I found the plight of the families to be most gut wrenching.  When I first started handing out meals, my first impressions were that it would be all about having a nice hot meal on Christmas eve.  For some of the homeless people that I ran into, I think that this might have been the case.  What I did not expect was that for most of the people that I ran into, it was more about another person stopping to say hello and talking to them as a fellow human being.  I think for alot of them, they are invisible.  People walk by and pretend not to see them.  It seemed to me that for 75-80% of them, it was more about someone taking he time to stop and ask how they were doing and treating them like a fellow human being. One of the things that sticks with me, was the conversation I had with three homeless guys.  We chatted about the Chargers.  It was no different than a conversation that I might have with a friend or a colleague at work.  I could tell that something as simple as that really meant a lot to them.  After our brief &quot;Charger talk&quot;, I could see tears welling up in each of their eyes.  I think its easy to forget that the homeless are people. I don&#039;t deny that some may have serious problems and perhaps real issues with drugs, alcohol, and mental illness, but even with all of that we shouldn&#039;t forget that they are also people.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mark,</p>
<p>I just have a brief story dealing with one of my experiences with the homeless.  A year ago I went out on Christmas Eve with a group who makes up meals to give to the homeless.  We put together meals in styrofoam clamshells and went out walking the streets of downtown San Diego just north of Horton Plaza.  I must admit that I am not really a downtown dweller and only really go down there for a game at Petco or perhaps something at the convention center.  One of the first things that I discovered was that as soon as you walk around a little bit down there, you&#8217;ll notice that there are a lot of people living on the streets.  There are far more than I ever realized while driving my car to a game at Petco.  Some have been on the streets for a long time and some are newly homeless.  The newly homeless look just like you and me.  Some are individuals and others are entire families.  I found the plight of the families to be most gut wrenching.  When I first started handing out meals, my first impressions were that it would be all about having a nice hot meal on Christmas eve.  For some of the homeless people that I ran into, I think that this might have been the case.  What I did not expect was that for most of the people that I ran into, it was more about another person stopping to say hello and talking to them as a fellow human being.  I think for alot of them, they are invisible.  People walk by and pretend not to see them.  It seemed to me that for 75-80% of them, it was more about someone taking he time to stop and ask how they were doing and treating them like a fellow human being. One of the things that sticks with me, was the conversation I had with three homeless guys.  We chatted about the Chargers.  It was no different than a conversation that I might have with a friend or a colleague at work.  I could tell that something as simple as that really meant a lot to them.  After our brief &#8220;Charger talk&#8221;, I could see tears welling up in each of their eyes.  I think its easy to forget that the homeless are people. I don&#8217;t deny that some may have serious problems and perhaps real issues with drugs, alcohol, and mental illness, but even with all of that we shouldn&#8217;t forget that they are also people.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Learning about the homeless, August 2, 2010 by Mark</title>
		<link>http://facklerfamily.org/2010/08/03/learning-about-the-homeless-august-2-2010/#comment-2697</link>
		<dc:creator>Mark</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Aug 2010 02:23:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mike - Your story illustrates a tough problem. Businesses can only do so much and can only be so tolerant.

Karen - Your project looks fantastic!</description>
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<p>Karen &#8211; Your project looks fantastic!</p>
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